I know the world is changing and this is 2014. I know the girls come easy these days and they are everywhere. I know you just need to look good or most times just have a little cash to throw around and the girls stick like flies to poop.
But the game was made this way: Guy meet girl, guy likes girl, guy woos girl. Guy does everything to make girl fall in love with him.
Guy Really makes an effort and then maybe girl will fall in love too.
So a mutual friend hooks you up with a girl doesn’t mean she is yours for the taking. You still need to make that extra effort. After all you like her because she is beautiful ( since your brain works with what your eyes see) , intelligent and so natural you have seen her drinking garri on Skype. She is funny and you enjoy talking to her. Cool !!! so Make an effort.
Make her fall in love with you too. She doesn’t care what you look like she is just watching for what you say and what you do, so don’t just sit there and expect her to fall for your fine face. It ain’t gonna work!
Make her laugh too. Ask her out on a date properly. Take her to a proper restaurant. Be a gentleman. Be consistent, be reliable. Be ready to spend your call credit to call her everyday never tell her this “I’m always the one calling , when are you going to call me back?”
Be ready to leave your city to hers to see her and please don’t go empty handed a girl likes to know her man is not stingy. Never ever ever ask her to come to your house for a first date.
Decide where you want to take her to and ask her if it’s ok. Don’t ask her ” so where should we go to? It’s so not cool. A girl likes her man in charge .
Never expect her to spend her money on you. Be ready to stand up to the responsibilities of a MAN.
Never take her out on a first date in company of your friends to go drinking. She is not ready to meet your friends . She just wants to talk to you .
Take her to places she’s never been before . Treat her like a lady.
Buy her flowers. Send her chocolates at work just because it’s Monday
Be prepared to drive across one end of the town to the other end just to pick her up from her house for a date, don’t expect her to meet you halfway in town ( she will do that without you asking when she falls in love with you) , treat her like a lady, open the door for her trust me Nigerian girls like this.
Lastly and most importantly do not expect her to fall into your bed because you have done all these.